Ever wondered how to be happy and content without letting others influence you? How can it be possible?
Let others’ presence not bother you. You do your stuff all by yourself whatever you can. If you need co-ordination or help, ask for it. When you go back to your work, do it coolly and be joyful. You will cover many milestones this way. Stay in slow and steady mode – after all, you are the person who will win at it. Perseverance and determination always count.
Let others’ words not bite at you. You may not let what others say hurt you. Be firm and strong and speak boldly. Everything will work out and you do not need to be a people pleaser.
Let how others behave not bother you. You cannot expect everyone to be perfect as well as your standard. Yet talk normally and accept them but do not let them hamper your ideas or work.
Let how other people dress not bother you. If there is a dress code at work and someone violates it, then they might need to pay for it. So you do not bother and sweat. If you don’t like how someone is dressed at a party or reunion, don’t bother to say anything. Just keep your distance and mix with the people you are comfortable with and keep contented.
It is not your job to fix anyone. Let others do what they like, talk, behave or wear anything they like. You don’t bother about such things unless it is your own family and would like to suggest something more rational or positive.
Learn to be satisfied with your stuff on your place at work or home. Don’t let anybody affect your peace of mind. You may sit in a backyard for sometime or spend your time in a home library. If you crave for someone’s business, let him or her understand that and allow them to spend some time with you for the time being and be content and happy.
Summing up, please don’t let others’ odd existence or behavior affect you. You might be in for a surprise or shock but it is totally their business. Control yourself and stay cool and at peace with yourself. That way you do not lose your temper or your peace of mind. Instead, tranquility surrounds you in your surroundings and you’re left with your thoughts and work to enjoy and be satisfied.